Breakfast in boy's memory raises thousands of dollars Money goes towards scholarship honouring drowning victim Birunthan Muralidaran!- MIKE ADLER -
               They weren't just there for the hash browns and eggs. Diners who 
              packed the Markham Station Restaurant on Friday morning came to 
              support 
              the family of Birunthan Muralidaran and preserve the memory of the 
              boy and his heroic act. 
              Just 11, Birunthan died Dec. 10 trying to save a friend, Kishoban 
              Alakewaran, 15, who fell through thin ice covering a stormwater 
              pond in their 
              Morningside Heights neighbourhood. Kishoban died on Dec. 16 after 
              being taken off life support. 
              Those attending Friday's breakfast were starting a scholarship 
              fund in Birunthan's name. They included the boy's family, friends 
              and many of 
              the police officers and firefighters who braved the ice and cold 
              water trying to save both boys.
They weren't just there for the hash browns and eggs. Diners who 
              packed the Markham Station Restaurant on Friday morning came to 
              support 
              the family of Birunthan Muralidaran and preserve the memory of the 
              boy and his heroic act. 
              Just 11, Birunthan died Dec. 10 trying to save a friend, Kishoban 
              Alakewaran, 15, who fell through thin ice covering a stormwater 
              pond in their 
              Morningside Heights neighbourhood. Kishoban died on Dec. 16 after 
              being taken off life support. 
              Those attending Friday's breakfast were starting a scholarship 
              fund in Birunthan's name. They included the boy's family, friends 
              and many of 
              the police officers and firefighters who braved the ice and cold 
              water trying to save both boys. 
              
              Besides donations from diners, the restaurant gave $2,000 and 
              owner John Psihopedas and his partners $1,000 of their own. All 55 
              restaurant 
              employees gave five hours of their pay, which Psihopedas said 
              would come to $2,400. 
              
              "We like to help the community," he said, noting two years ago 
              Markham Station collected $10,000 for Toronto's Hospital for Sick 
              Children the 
              same way. 
              
              Ward 42 Councillor Raymond Cho (Scarborough-Rouge River) also gave 
              the scholarship fund $1,000, a portion of the nine-per-cent pay 
              raise 
              for councillors approved last year. 
              
              He figured the breakfasts raise around $7,000 in all. "Some people 
              just put $50, $20, $5," said Cho. "I'm expecting at least $2,000 
              in that 
              box." 
              
              Police from 42 Division, close by Milner Avenue, are supporting a 
              formal recognition of the boy's heroism, said Insp. Dave Brown. 
              "Even though 
              this boy is no longer here in some way he's going to continue to 
              help people," he said of the scholarship. "In a tragic event like 
              this there's 
              a connection that everybody feels." 
              
              Kumar Nandakumaran, known as Nanda Rajendram, employs Birunthan's 
              father Muralidaran Nadarajah at his business, publishing a 
              directory 
              called Amidst Tamils. 
              
              It was there Nadarajah received the call Dec. 10 informing him his 
              son was at a local stormwater pond and was "missing." 
              
              "I said, We'll take my jeep and we'll go. It's close to the 
              house," said Rajendram, recalling Nadarajah jumped over a fence 
              and the two men 
              reached the scene just as a rescue helicopter was taking off. 
              
              Rajendram went back to the family's house and comforted the 
              Nadarajah's younger son and daughter before going to the mortuary 
              to view 
              Birunthan. 
              
              A soccer player himself back in Sri Lanka, he had watched 
              Birunthan play, admiring his passing game and ability to score. 
              "He used to come 
              to my house all the time," Rajendram said. "I felt so bad. Still, 
              I'm upset." 
              
              Nadarajah is a devoted father left devastated by his son's death, 
              added the publisher, who dismissed allegations of Nadarajah's past 
              ties with 
              the banned Tamil Tigers rebel group - the reason Birunthan's 
              surviving family all face deportation after a failed refugee bid - 
              as "media 
              propaganda". 
              
              Asked how should people honour the boy, Rajendram turned his head 
              toward a poster on the restaurant wall that showed Birunthan in 
              his 
              soccer uniform and nodded approvingly. "He's a hero. He was." 
              
              Cho also offered diners the chance to sign a petition supporting 
              the family's desire to stay in Canada. "We strongly believe that 
              they should be 
              granted status as landed immigrants," it reads. 
              
              Usha Heer, a Morningside Heights resident, said her daughter is 
              raising money to put safety equipment around the pond at 
              Morningside and 
              Old Finch avenues. 
              
              This month, Toronto Water spokesperson Diane Chester said city 
              staff understood the pond had three sets of lifesaving equipment 
              positioned 
              around it. Each set had a life ring, a rope and a pole with a 
              shepherd's hook. 
              
              Maintaining the equipment is not the city's responsibility since 
              the pond has not yet been handed over to the city, Chester said. 
              She said that 
              when staff inspected the pond after the accident, they discovered 
              one set of safety equipment was missing and one was lying on the 
              ground. 
              
              The pond was not fenced because the slopes around it weren't steep 
              enough to require it, she said. 
              
              Heer, who lives near the pond and often walks family dog there, 
              said she's never seen a safety ring, pole or other lifesaving 
              equipment. "We 
              don't want this thing to happen again to any of our kids in the 
              future," she said. 
              
              Cho has said some of those involved in the fundraising will be 
              part of a foundation that guides the scholarship. On Friday, John 
              Paterson, 
              owner of Paterson's Food Basics, gave the fund a cheque for $500, 
              having given pre-paid breakfast vouchers to shoppers who bought at 
              least 
              $100 in groceries on the previous three days. 
              
              Paterson said he hoped the scholarship goes to a child from 
              Birunthan's Thomas L. Wells Public School who shows the most 
              outgoing 
              personality and community spirit. "Sometimes it's not all about 
              the marks. It's about being a good person." 
              
              Scarborough Mirror:
              
              http://www.insidetoronto.ca/to/scarborough/story/3827604p-4428288c.html?loc=scarborough
              [If anyone is unable to attend the breakfast 
              and is still wanting to make a donation towards the Scholarship 
              Trust Fund they could contact 
              Councillor Raymond Cho's office at 416-392-4078.]



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